Give good news, do not spread hatred and bad news

If you look around your social circle, you find 95% of that circle full of pessimists. Pessimists love spreading bad news and they fool themselves and others that they are doing some kind of social service to aware mankind from evil.

In fact they are spreading hatred, despair and frustration toxic for growth, both mental and spiritual. The only good thing you can expect from a pessimist is when you borrow something from him, he wont expect you to return and you can keep that forever if you like.

If you have 95% pessimists in your social circle you are a pessimist yourself or becoming one. Check it out. Do you like talking about how bad the world has become? How disrespectful and bad young people are? Do you think your government is full for thieves and corrupt people? Even your society and your house is full of pressurizing influencing and bullying people? If the answer is yes then you are infected, intoxicated.

And you know what? You have actually become a perfect buyer a useful customer.  Hatred, despair and frustration make you insecure and insecurity creates buying tendencies. You tend to increase your buying power to build a safe heaven for you and your loved ones. You get into a race for earning quick money, find shortcuts to get rich.  Now think of the real agenda behind creation of this public opinion for an insecure world? Who is actually benefiting from this public opinion?

All that huge investments on creation of a huge network of news channels and their supporting press and other so called entertainment channels. Their purpose is to create insecure nation, desperate to make money even if they have to kill someone for it. These toxic feelings of frustration anxiety hatred and insecurity remove tolerance and this results into terror attacks that supported 'The Agenda' as well as triggers wars and again you know war is good business.

It is actually not so difficult to believe in good. Believing in that 5% of your circle if it is really 5% of optimists. The ones who look at the positive side. Give you good news. Tell you how easy life actually is. Cause life is how you take it, if you take is too serious and tough it gets tough and if you take is easy and not very seriously it gets easy and fun. I recently saw a post on social media in which a famous business man admired his close friend and mentor Richard Branson for the wonderful advice he gave him when he asked for it when starting his business, now a multi million dollar company. The advice was' Have fun, make it a fun place.'

So where is all that so serious attitude? where is taking it as a really tough job?.

It is just a matter of believing that your actual social circle are those 5% optimists. You leave the rest and start spending time with those positive minds that give you positive vibes and your feel comfortable easy and happy. Because humans are social animals the absorb feelings, tendencies and habits from their surroundings specially other humans around them. If you really need to be successful, surround yourself with those successful, happy and accomplished people. Listen, watch and read good news, good stories and good material that these successful people listen, watch and read. 

Me

Intelligence is the bedrock of all progress. Thinkers, scientists, and leaders of the past, caused development by intellectual thought. 

Reading their intelligent quotes and gaining from their wisdom is my most favourite pass time.

Using these intelligent quotes to stimulate my own mind or to strike an intellectual conversation with my peers is what I always need to do.

I remember when I was younger and I wanted to be beautiful; now I’m older and I want to be intelligent. I want to burn hearts with brilliance and engulf souls with compassion.

I want to be loved for my thoughts and nothing else.

I know I am incapable of saying even simple things in a simple way and most of the people do not understand them first, until they think hard and try. 

I love deep, meaningful, intellectual conversations where you could talk about anything and everything, those conversations that just leave you wanting more out of the person. It's sad that there's only limited people who could hold a conversation like this. But that's the most enjoyable thing for me in the world. 

My soul and mind are always starving for deep, rich, authentic, stimulating, intellectual, spiritual conversations and I have the deepest affection for intellectual conversations.

The ability to just sit and talk. About love, about life, about anything, about everything. To sit under the moon with all the time in the world, the full-speed train that is our lives slowing to a crawl. Bound by no obligations, barred by no human limitations. To speak without regret or fear of consequence. To talk for hours and about what’s really important in life.

Tell me about your Hero

Just think and see who you call your hero? Is that some one with lots of fame? or is it someone with lots of money, power or influence? Or is it someone with great looks? No?

Then its someone full of kindness, compassion, commitment loyalty dedication strength and bravery is it? Someone with values like Mosses, Jesus Christ , Buddha and  Mother Teresa and people like these or the ones following their footsteps would be one of those you would like to call a hero or a good person.

But you know what? The strange thing is you don't even keep them in your daily chit chat or conversation you don't really talk about them or read about about them or watch movies or programs or attend seminars or get together at all to share their thoughts and ideas and quotes.

 How can someone have a hero like that? Hardly ever mentioning those widely accepted good people on TV or talk shoes or any other place means we are not interested to follow their footsteps. When you don't even think about them how could you be like them? You follow and work on someone else actually. A TV or movie star? a politician or a money making machine a business tycoon or a journalist. You listen watch and attend everything that's related to these heroes of yours.

This is whats happening all TV shows, movies, dramas, events and seminars most of the times making you feel like those are your ideals, your heroes, your leaders and you utterly believe in that and always talk about movies or politics wars or brands. Is that what you would like to become?

If you really believe in good you look for the good things and people talk about them and share their ideas views and quotes all the time. You try to follow their footsteps you become a good person actually not just in your chit chat or conversations or social meetings. You actually are a good person when no one is watching you. You don't just pretend to be good person, you are a good guy.

Even if you do what you are doing already. Talking about fashion, brands, movies or even science, technology, business or money and the icons of these things. Do you really try to follow and act upon the footsteps of these so called leaders and heroes and try becoming a politician? a movie star or a business tycoon or at least a great journalist ?

You ever tried studying and training and practising to be like them? Not really. Then think of what you really are up to. You are still in search of tranquillity, satisfaction and peace and in search of that you are trying all these worthless methods and you still feel nothing can quench your thirst for serenity and peace.

Did you ever think you are on the wrong path for what you are looking for? No one gets serenity like this. Serenity peace and satisfaction comes from within when you actually try to become the original human, a real one. A complete human being is the symbol of peace harmony tranquillity and it comes only with wisdom.

Wisdom comes when you put knowledge into action. Apply that stack of information and knowledge you obtained and put it into action before it gets rotten and turns into evil and makes you feel frustrated and sick.

Learn how it works and it would teach you a lesson. Either you like the results or you refrain from practising it again.  Both ways you learn a lesson and that makes you wiser. This is called the slower and traditional method of getting wisdom.

For the faster more efficient way you must get yourself associated with a master a mentor or a leader a real hero learn his ways study and talk about him share and spread his views and get closer to him to become a grown up, mature and reliable human being like him. He knows how its done the better way. Because he put his knowledge into action long before you were even born may be and gained wisdom. There is no shortcut to experience and its results the is called wisdom.

But there is always a faster way. Choice is yours.

Relationships never die

Did you ever ponder about all those good things you do and believe in? Where did they come from? How do you recognise staying neat and keeping your place clean and always insisting on cleaner surroundings is good? Who showed you that? Your parents? Or elders? Who taught them? Keep going back and you will discover that it was God who taught all the good deeds to his good and great men that we call perfect humans and not only mankind but also to other creatures as well.

But why pick only the good deeds you like? Why not all the bad deeds? Why debate and argue on the rest of the virtuous deeds? Just because that's not the way of the so called modern world? Or that does not suit your so called social circle? What would they think about you if you are that good? What would they say? Is that what stops you from being a thorough human being?

Or is it just an excuse for all that fun all that so called limitless liberty you need from the real purpose of life? Think of having a really good friend? A brother a sister or Mother or any-other relationship, what do you expect from them to be like? Good with you? Or bad?

What if they do not fulfil their commitments, or they betray you? Or trick you? Would that be a good relationship? Would you like to keep that relationship?

If you expect others to full fill their duties towards a great relationship and if you want a complete relationship, you look for a complete human being don't you? Complete human being with all that good not just a part of good.

Human beings are not perfect yes but a relationship can be. You always like a perfect relationship a perfectly made meal or completely stitched dress. Do you accepts a half tailored dress? Or a half cooked meal? Or a half loyal relationship?

Then why do you offer everyone a half human half loyal relationship? Why you want others to accept you as a half good brother a half good son or a half good friend?

Why do you always expect others to give love, care, kindness and respect and in return you would think of giving it back? Ever thought of giving it all away, all the time, never wanting a reward from humans, just to please your Lord, your creator?

Becoming a giver is too difficult is it? But that's being a thorough human actually.

Having a perfect relationship is to become a good friend a brother a good son first. Key to every prefect relationships is being a giver that's always looking for ways to make his friend his mother brother or sister happy looking for what pleases them. Not himself only.

Relationships never die, they have their own feet they can walk and runaway if they get scared with our own behavior they come closer with the way we treat them. This happens not only to humans, this is true with all the creatures of Lord.

Worries & Success

The secret behind becoming a successful is not going to a great college or wearing branded clothes or having a classy car to drive or learning the ways to earn more money. If you fancy those great people and feel like becoming like them try to get closer to them. If you have a 4 figure income and you wish to have 5 or 6 figure income like those who earn more than you, do try to get closer to them, stay in their company spend time close to them.

It is a proven fact that humans absorb and emit tendencies and habits. You learn and adopt habits abilities and thinking of your friends and relatives and gradually begin to look like them. A man is known by the company he keeps. If you wish to become a great person you must spend time with great people. No matter whom you consider as a great personality.

Normally we tend to send requests, applications or requirements to the ones we consider bigger and greater than us. We don't know what they worry about and how big a great man's worries are. To become a great man you must have greater and bigger things to worry about instead of petty little things like next months bills or tuition fee or things like that. Bigger greater worries occupy bigger space in your heart and only one or two of them flush away these little things to worry about and you have a clearer happier mind and heart with only one of two things to worry about. The greater your worry is, the greater you are.

Just need to change your social circle get out of that circle of similar looking wana be(s)

So whenever you sincerely want to make a change, the first thing you must do is raise your standards about people and things around you. What really substituted my life is the change I demanded of myself. I wrote down all the things and people, I would no longer accept in my life, all the things I would no longer tolerate, and all the things I aspired to becoming.

Just think about the social circle around you. How many of them you find optimists? Positive thinkers with an optimistic approach towards life who always take it easy and believe in good and always look towards the good side of things and people. If the total percentage of the these people is lesser than the pessimists and toxic ones on your social circle it means you belong to the pessimist side. Large majority of negative thinkers around you is your own choice and that's making you feel the same way they think and feel.

You must start believing that's not your circle and quit the company and look towards those few with positive approach and upgrade your standards. They may be very small in number but if you are positive thinker an optimist, that's your social circle. Always surround yourself with these positive people giving you positive vibes. They will help you grow up, instead of growing old only. Believe me when you start growing up the growing old process slows down. Our negative, optimistic thought and approaches bring wrinkles on our skin. Makes us feel torn, weak and old.

Be a good friend of yourself and choose good for yourself. Otherwise you would become your own worst enemy. That's very likely when you are surrounded by toxic people with pessimist thinking emitting negative vibes.