Real Murderers

I was watching a movie once, in which an engineering student was behind schedule for his project that was a revolutionary kind of flying video camera that was remotely controlled. He was supposed to get his graduation degree with this project submission and all his family including his father who was an ordinary village guy were so enthusiastic with the thought of his son becoming the first engineer of his village that he arranged a trip for whole village to attend the graduation ceremony of his son.

But the Principal did not allow more time never even bothered to take a look at this boy's revolutionary project and grant him a bit of extension in time and called his father not to come for the graduation ceremony as the boy would not qualify this year just for being a little behind schedule.

This created extremely adverse effect on the boy and he was found hanging with the ceiling the next day. Shocked and torn apart his father arrived to receive his body from the university instead of his graduation degree and someone whispers in the ears of the strict up to the mark principal " congratulation sir you got away...postmortem report says " cause of the death is due to extreme pressure on the throat and neck. No one knows it was actually extreme stress and pressure in the head that made him kill himself.  It was a murder. Smiles encouragements and trust are needed for the great results form people specially young men and women need that more. But unfortunately they get criticisms, comparison with others kids and most of all scolding.

This is usual in our sick society. Either people are too busy to live life and spend quality time with their loved one's and if they are with them its only an exchange of negative thoughts, thoughts that they hear on media. Increase in violence, extremism, prices and outburst of epidemics or natural calamities. Negative politics, journalism and corruption. That is the main focus these days keeping the hyper tension on top. Making people feel insecure all the time and keeping them on the verge to earn more and more spend more and more and by themselves more security.

The product we get from that is negative toxic people. Always finding faults and things to criticize yell and scold. This is what we get form most of the teachers in the schools, colleges and universities as well and this is what we also receive at work places. Bullying and torture humiliation of subordinates and if not directly possible making the environment so inhuman and mechanical that human factor disappears from a workplace and workplace becomes a big machine and humans become just a part of that big machine.

In our schools most teachers are working  to create hyper active nation of young boys and girl once unleashed into the society it creates a brutal race ruthless with no moral rules or respect or mercy. Always competing, not helping not encouraging not giving way. The ones left behind are so brutally tortured and humiliated that either they are compelled to take their own lives or anyone else's that looks like worth it.

A few days ago I heard an old man died in our neighborhood. Cause of death, sudden heart failure. He was not willing to see his sons separating who used to live in his big house for years. He tried to settle their differences but they were up to get out in the the same race of success and never listened to their old man who told them about peace harmony humility and optimism the real values of life hidden behind staying together and sharing every hardship and happiness. They never listened to the old man cause these things are total waste of time and taken as useless stupid people thought and values that are not applicable in the real world these days. The old man died with that stress, grief and depression and the sons got away with that murder. No one around them didn't even bother to accuse them for killing their own father with that constant torture and shock. Despite the fact that the neighborhood knew what really made the old man leave the world but the stood silent. The reason no body accused them was the same as ever. Everyone is doing the same in their own life. Punishing, humiliating torturing bullying and talking about all that every time looking for someone to prove their supremacy in this.

Whenever someone commits a suicide I always know he didn't kill himself he was murdered. there are lots of kinds of suicides that we are not aware of. When someone deliberately neglects to take care of himself having a preoccupied stressed or depressed mind and invites diseases that gradually grows into hyper tensions and then sometimes diabetes high blood pressure and then heart disease what do you call it?

So next time you face a toxic negative minded person don't try to take it lightly. Pay your debt to the society and tell that person you are actually a murderer or the worst kind that creates murderers by filling human minds with poisonous hate filled negative thoughts.

Lets try spreading peace and tranquility and share good thoughts and ideas. Lets choose and share positiveness and optimism and information from TV programs and Social Media that promote something constructive positive and good. Lets open our hearts and minds and accept our weaknesses and handicaps by sharing laughter and smiles and casual get together to exchange views as well as knowledge and experiences about life art and culture.

Debt

I believe that we have a debt towards our surroundings. Our relationships that contribute into what we are and the way we co exist. The same way our neighbors our city, country and the world is. All these have a major part to play the way we live and stay alive. Most of the times peacefully and happily, therefore we keep living where we are. The reason we settle into a portion of a society is that society that lets us become a part of the society.

I think I need to pay back my debt. Need to be thankful to all that I received to exist and live the way I want to live or at least dominantly the way I like to live. One of these ways to show that I am appreciative is to share good thoughts, inspirational encouraging and appreciating thoughts and ideas. I think this really matters. As I know that it creates a great deal of influence on my ways to live and most of the way I feel. Whenever I hear, read or see a great thought it creates an impact and gradually becomes a major part of my personality if not an integral part.

I believe that the highest level of wisdom is the divine wisdom. Absolute and perfect and a lots of times we are not able to understand it. Sometimes we just don’t know why something happens out of the blue, an act of God. But we accept it and move on because its the fault in our meager wisdom that doesn't fully understand just like a child that would never understand why a contagious sore on his body that needs to be removed to get well and would keep yelling and thinking bad about you and the doctor who never heard his cries of disapproval and did it for his own good knowing that when the child would grow up he will understand that what you did was right.

If we realize and really understand something it becomes an integral part of our personality it becomes our firm believe. Just like if someone wakes me up in the middle of the night and tells me he left 100,000 bucks for me under my pillow I would get wide awake right away. Amazed and excited with no sign of languor or sleepiness. But if the same person tells me to wake up for prayers I would never do the same cause I actually don’t believe how good a prayer is.

The reason is my lack of understanding and perspective towards divine wisdom.  I don’t really believe, because I am unable to grasp what’s good in it for me and to understand this highest level of wisdom I must undergo the sayings of wise people step by step by reading quotations of people closer to my times the successful people I consider. Just like I have to attend school, before going to college and University in the so called education system, that are actually worker/slave producing factories of the world.

Gradually I learn from the lower wisdom of these people I think are the successful ones, no matter what my definition of success is. But then I move on to those great minds closer to God and read their sayings and quotes and I eventually start understanding what success is as it starts becoming a part of me and I comprehend and I really believe in it as it becomes an integral part of my character and reflects into my personality.

It’s a gradual process. Slow and steady wins the race. So please share what you like because a good person is the one who likes for his loved one's what he likes for himself. Loving someone does not mean being sweet to that person. It actually means wanting the best for him no matter how bitter it feels sometimes, just like that child above who didn't understand but you never worry about that.

Spare time

We call this term in which we spend time doing less important jobs. Like going out with people and hanging around with friends and relatives. Even being there for someone on a special occasion, illness or even funeral.

We go see people in our free time. We even see God in our free time.  We forget that He tells us that, He will remember us only if we remember Him. But we also give Him only what is spare, if we ever do, no matter if it is our time, money or any other thing. Lots of us make an excuses, actually an escape from the reality that they are responsible and answerable for their deeds in the end.  Telling other and themselves that there is no such thing as God. But keeping your eyes shut from reality doesn't make it disappear. 

Our most important time consumption goes to fulfill our inner most desires. Our desires that are sometimes secret to ourselves also. We also tell ourselves that making money is the greatest achievement we have. Knowing very well that it is wrong, we make excuses even to ourselves for not being there when someone needed us so badly, when mom needed to see me, talk to me or dad  wanted to talk to me about lots of things that I don't like to talk about. We don't even know that bread veining is not our only duty, not actually to the extent we run after it. But we run after money so desperately blind folded, that in the process of money making we sometimes loose those people and relationships that really meant the wolrd to us, because it is in human nature to adopt and find alternatives, and those relations that were on the bottom of our priority list also learn to live without us gradually.

God has already promised that this is His responsibility to take care of our sustenance . But we keep on playing God. We just run after more and more. More than our needs more than our actual requirement of living. Not even sure if we would ever be able to utilize cherish and enjoy all those gains the way we really want to.

Spending time with people and being there when they need us, knowing them and their actual needs, actually makes us realize that it is mostly us that they need the most, our presence in their life, not those things we are trying to get for them.

Our purpose is a meaningful valuable life not the so called successful one with piles of currency notes and to spend most of our time gaining wisdom, growing up not just growing older. Attaining the consciousness towards our creator becoming more useful for humanity and a better human. It requires regular communication with our creator so that we are able to receive strength and insight of our path. Staying connected actually has a very powerful effect and impression on our personality and when it is absolute wisdom that we stay connected with, the effect is in the shape of consciousness awareness and Illumination of our eternal real path.

But even if we try to do all this, we do it in our spare time and still expect God would remember us in his busy schedule? Do we think He is less busier than we are?

I feel sorry for all busy people who find time for life, to be alive, out of their busy schedule occasionally. I wonder what would happen one day when death would arrive at their door step and these people would not have time to die. Leaving all that unfinished worldly business behind would not be a bigger burden than having no time to be really alive.

We, the free people would never understand what busy people do, when they hardy find time for life from their busy schedule. Life, with their loved one's there friends. Having fun together. Because we hardly ever find time for those so called important things from life and being alive.