Benefits of misery

Yes there are  benefits of misery chaos and tragedies. If we look at the other side, where lots of poor professionals and businessmen and women need to have reason to sell their product and services.

These regular power cuts, failures (Load shedding) are really good.  Come on think of the poor families of Power Generator and UPS producing men and women how would they survive if you keep on enjoying a steady supply of power at home? Don't be so mean just give the poor people a chance to earn a decent living.

When one of your dear one falls ill and you get really worried and rush treatment and cure and sometimes you get upset with the high prices of drugs and medicine and treatment please don’t. Because if no one falls sick how would those poor medicines producing companies survive? They need these diseases badly even if they need to invent them. So please don’t mind and don't be bothered just sit back and relax think of those happy families benefiting from your loved one's illness.

See all those conflicts and differences that create fights among groups and wars between two countries. You see people die in the streets and mothers, sisters and wives of some innocent victims of so called extremism or terrorism please don’t worry don’t cry, don’t get upset. Just think of all those happy families of weapon producers who have no other way to sell their products. How do you think they would market and advertise their products when advertising and marketing of weapons is totally banned on press and media?

The need to find a way to earn a decent living for their families they need to persuade people to buy guns and ammo. They need to make people feel like having armed guards and keep bigger armed forces for their countries even when there is nothing valuable in the house or the country.

Have you ever wondered why Switzerland has no army? Even when world’s largest deposits of gold and capital are in that country? I still don't know why there are lots of other countries where there is nothing to be guarded or at least a lot less valuable than Switzerland and they still maintain a huge army.

So please be reasonable and never get upset with these small miseries of life think of those poor people who need these calamities, catastrophe and tragedies to earn a decent living.

Loving someone...

It is sometimes bewildered that loving someone is meant to be living with that someone. In our possessiveness and lack of forethought we tend to be melodramatic and we don't share our loved ones easily.


But there is a distinction between loving someone and living with the one you love. It’s like when we say I love Shahrukh Khan or Keanu Reaves or Nicole Kidman, it’s what we love about them on screen and what media tells us about them and we love the way they perform on screen. It does not exactly mean we would want to marry any of them. Even if we want that everyone knows it’s not likely to happen. Even we know that very well and still we keep on loving them. Wanting a lot may be, to spend more and more time watching their movies, shows and interviews and also eager to meet them in person and craving to get closer and closer. But it’s only a wish and desire, an admiration, respect, may be tremendous affection and fondness.

Desire, which sometimes revolves around a personality that we admire, may be someone, in our own social circle, or even relations. We love being with that person, talking to him or her. Always yearning to spend more and more time with that person and even have a desire to be loved by that person or spending the rest of our lives with that person. But we know deep down in our hearts that this is unfeasible.

And even there is one more important thing that we feel:

We know that if we try crossing our limits to get that person into our lives it would devastate everything, including the splendor of the relationship that exists between both of us already. We understand that a rose appears exquisite attractive and sweet smelling when it’s not plucked. The time we snatch it from its source, it loses all what we love about it.

Just like fish look so lovely in an aquarium in a hotel or someone's house. All those colorful kinds of fish make us feel so good but we know in our heart that we can never take them out of that aquarium, just to get hold of them, because they will die.

Also in this course, most of our loved one's feel bad as well. They get in secure and sometimes loose reliance in the relationship. In their purity and possessiveness they don't recognize that this only our castle in the sky a wish a desire. Just the way when we see a beautiful juvenile child that’s not even related to us we feel the urge to hold that child kiss hug and express our love just to make him or her feel good. But sometimes the mother cannot stand this she gets apprehensive or uneasy of the stranger holding her child.

Loving needs a bigger heart, relaxed boundaries and an open bright thinking. Cause: