To be concerned is one of the most powerful source of healing. Telling your child you really think about him or her and worry for them. You love and you are interested in everything he or she is interested in. Giving them the feeling of being always there when they need you, encouraging them supporting them and telling them never be afraid of making mistakes and blunders because you are there to fix them. But do we really bother ourselves with all that ever?
If you can ever fix anything, it is fixing mistakes blunders or at least covering them up for your kids and relations that matter. The responsibility does not mean being over reactive and pressurizing so much that the personality starts to distort.
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The effect of mistreatment and negligence or using bad words and hurting language are extremely severe. In Solomon Islands, a sovereign state in Oceania, near Papua new Guinea, when they needed to clear out the jungle for some reason the would not cut a tree. They would just gather around it and say every bad word and use abusive language to that tree and the tree would start drying out and die in a few days.
Experiments have proved that even the indoor plants react to the atmosphere around them and their growth is effected due the surrounding they are in.
Humans ..even if they pretend to be really strong hearted or stone hearted, have the need to see care and concern. We just need to offer small tokens of care. Saying happy birthday, and expressing the happiness you feel for someone being in the world with you means so much to these homo sapiens. Just tell them you care you worry and you are concerned and see what happens. Kind words cost nothing buy everything. It is so powerful that no medicine in the world would effect like that.
Saying I am with you, don't worry I will take care of that. I am on your side no matter what happens are the magical words that can even create miracles.
But these miracles are only created when these words come out of your heart with purity and sincerity. It can not be manufactured or exhibited when its not really there. When we praise beauty or intelligence or congratulate someone on success or offer sympathy or condolences only the purity reaches all the way down to the heart.
All we need to do is to be pure and natural. If we don't want, we don't have to do that half heatedly or with no heart.
If you can ever fix anything, it is fixing mistakes blunders or at least covering them up for your kids and relations that matter. The responsibility does not mean being over reactive and pressurizing so much that the personality starts to distort.
Experiments have proved that even the indoor plants react to the atmosphere around them and their growth is effected due the surrounding they are in.
Humans ..even if they pretend to be really strong hearted or stone hearted, have the need to see care and concern. We just need to offer small tokens of care. Saying happy birthday, and expressing the happiness you feel for someone being in the world with you means so much to these homo sapiens. Just tell them you care you worry and you are concerned and see what happens. Kind words cost nothing buy everything. It is so powerful that no medicine in the world would effect like that.
Saying I am with you, don't worry I will take care of that. I am on your side no matter what happens are the magical words that can even create miracles.
But these miracles are only created when these words come out of your heart with purity and sincerity. It can not be manufactured or exhibited when its not really there. When we praise beauty or intelligence or congratulate someone on success or offer sympathy or condolences only the purity reaches all the way down to the heart.
All we need to do is to be pure and natural. If we don't want, we don't have to do that half heatedly or with no heart.
2 comments:
CARE,a four letter word with the emotional depth of the oceans at its core, just a few words or actions could shatter that emotion to pieces.
A very moving article with profound meanings and feelings.Yes few kind words do buy you everything but sometimes those very words costs you dear,more dear then you can afford and if the recipient is careless then what do you have, and what do you do.
Munawar
So true, even the small gestures that show care and concern are very important in a relation.
Eudy
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