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Tuesday 14 March 2017

Relationships never die

Did you ever ponder about all those good things you do and believe in? Where did they come from? How do you recognise staying neat and keeping your place clean and always insisting on cleaner surroundings is good? Who showed you that? Your parents? Or elders? Who taught them? Keep going back and you will discover that it was God who taught all the good deeds to his good and great men that we call perfect humans and not only mankind but also to other creatures as well.

But why pick only the good deeds you like? Why not all the bad deeds? Why debate and argue on the rest of the virtuous deeds? Just because that's not the way of the so called modern world? Or that does not suit your so called social circle? What would they think about you if you are that good? What would they say? Is that what stops you from being a thorough human being?

Or is it just an excuse for all that fun all that so called limitless liberty you need from the real purpose of life? Think of having a really good friend? A brother a sister or Mother or any-other relationship, what do you expect from them to be like? Good with you? Or bad?

What if they do not fulfil their commitments, or they betray you? Or trick you? Would that be a good relationship? Would you like to keep that relationship?

If you expect others to full fill their duties towards a great relationship and if you want a complete relationship, you look for a complete human being don't you? Complete human being with all that good not just a part of good.

Human beings are not perfect yes but a relationship can be. You always like a perfect relationship a perfectly made meal or completely stitched dress. Do you accepts a half tailored dress? Or a half cooked meal? Or a half loyal relationship?

Then why do you offer everyone a half human half loyal relationship? Why you want others to accept you as a half good brother a half good son or a half good friend?

Why do you always expect others to give love, care, kindness and respect and in return you would think of giving it back? Ever thought of giving it all away, all the time, never wanting a reward from humans, just to please your Lord, your creator?

Becoming a giver is too difficult is it? But that's being a thorough human actually.

Having a perfect relationship is to become a good friend a brother a good son first. Key to every prefect relationships is being a giver that's always looking for ways to make his friend his mother brother or sister happy looking for what pleases them. Not himself only.

Relationships never die, they have their own feet they can walk and runaway if they get scared with our own behavior they come closer with the way we treat them. This happens not only to humans, this is true with all the creatures of Lord.