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Saturday 13 December 2014

Real Murderers

I was watching a movie once, in which an engineering student was behind schedule for his project that was a revolutionary kind of flying video camera that was remotely controlled. He was supposed to get his graduation degree with this project submission and all his family including his father who was an ordinary village guy were so enthusiastic with the thought of his son becoming the first engineer of his village that he arranged a trip for whole village to attend the graduation ceremony of his son.

But the Principal did not allow more time never even bothered to take a look at this boy's revolutionary project and grant him a bit of extension in time and called his father not to come for the graduation ceremony as the boy would not qualify this year just for being a little behind schedule.

This created extremely adverse effect on the boy and he was found hanging with the ceiling the next day. Shocked and torn apart his father arrived to receive his body from the university instead of his graduation degree and someone whispers in the ears of the strict up to the mark principal " congratulation sir you got away...postmortem report says " cause of the death is due to extreme pressure on the throat and neck. No one knows it was actually extreme stress and pressure in the head that made him kill himself.  It was a murder. Smiles encouragements and trust are needed for the great results form people specially young men and women need that more. But unfortunately they get criticisms, comparison with others kids and most of all scolding.

This is usual in our sick society. Either people are too busy to live life and spend quality time with their loved one's and if they are with them its only an exchange of negative thoughts, thoughts that they hear on media. Increase in violence, extremism, prices and outburst of epidemics or natural calamities. Negative politics, journalism and corruption. That is the main focus these days keeping the hyper tension on top. Making people feel insecure all the time and keeping them on the verge to earn more and more spend more and more and by themselves more security.

The product we get from that is negative toxic people. Always finding faults and things to criticize yell and scold. This is what we get form most of the teachers in the schools, colleges and universities as well and this is what we also receive at work places. Bullying and torture humiliation of subordinates and if not directly possible making the environment so inhuman and mechanical that human factor disappears from a workplace and workplace becomes a big machine and humans become just a part of that big machine.

In our schools most teachers are working  to create hyper active nation of young boys and girl once unleashed into the society it creates a brutal race ruthless with no moral rules or respect or mercy. Always competing, not helping not encouraging not giving way. The ones left behind are so brutally tortured and humiliated that either they are compelled to take their own lives or anyone else's that looks like worth it.

A few days ago I heard an old man died in our neighborhood. Cause of death, sudden heart failure. He was not willing to see his sons separating who used to live in his big house for years. He tried to settle their differences but they were up to get out in the the same race of success and never listened to their old man who told them about peace harmony humility and optimism the real values of life hidden behind staying together and sharing every hardship and happiness. They never listened to the old man cause these things are total waste of time and taken as useless stupid people thought and values that are not applicable in the real world these days. The old man died with that stress, grief and depression and the sons got away with that murder. No one around them didn't even bother to accuse them for killing their own father with that constant torture and shock. Despite the fact that the neighborhood knew what really made the old man leave the world but the stood silent. The reason no body accused them was the same as ever. Everyone is doing the same in their own life. Punishing, humiliating torturing bullying and talking about all that every time looking for someone to prove their supremacy in this.

Whenever someone commits a suicide I always know he didn't kill himself he was murdered. there are lots of kinds of suicides that we are not aware of. When someone deliberately neglects to take care of himself having a preoccupied stressed or depressed mind and invites diseases that gradually grows into hyper tensions and then sometimes diabetes high blood pressure and then heart disease what do you call it?

So next time you face a toxic negative minded person don't try to take it lightly. Pay your debt to the society and tell that person you are actually a murderer or the worst kind that creates murderers by filling human minds with poisonous hate filled negative thoughts.

Lets try spreading peace and tranquility and share good thoughts and ideas. Lets choose and share positiveness and optimism and information from TV programs and Social Media that promote something constructive positive and good. Lets open our hearts and minds and accept our weaknesses and handicaps by sharing laughter and smiles and casual get together to exchange views as well as knowledge and experiences about life art and culture.